'Trad wife' says letting husband have sex with others 'makes marriage stronger'

'Trad wife' says letting husband have sex with others 'makes marriage stronger'

10/22/2021

A ‘traditional wife’, or ‘trad wife’, who struggles with low libido has shared how opening up her marriage has helped their relationship grow stronger – although she refuses to sleep with any other men.

OnlyFans model Monica Huldt, 37, who lives in the Arizona, US, says she’s ‘a one-man kind of woman’ but seeing John, 40, with other women is a turn-on.

‘I always knew my husband was interested in having a threesome, but we’d never really sat down and spoken about doing it seriously,’ said Monica, who’s originally from Sweden.

‘In Sweden, people don’t really do stuff like that or even talk about it.

‘On top of that I was raised a Catholic, so sex was super taboo at home, I wasn’t even allowed to date boys growing up.

‘I trust my husband 100%, and I think including others into our marriage has made our sex life so awesome and overall made our marriage so much stronger.’

Monica, who recently hit the headlines for saying she believes more women should adopt a domestic ‘trad wife’ role at home, first began struggling with a low libido while working as a stripper in 2015.

She said: ‘Prior to working online I did daily shifts as a dancer in a strip club and that made me really uninterested in sex.

‘I was around men during my whole working week being stared at and having to constantly be nice, it made me feel quite miserable afterwards.

‘It really put a dampener on my mood and when I got home I didn’t want to have sex or even be touched by my husband.

‘That was obviously not good for our sex life or the relationship.

‘We did go through some really rough patches because of my lack of sex drive and intimacy.

‘It was really tough.’

Monica felt ‘depressed and down’ due to her work, and the couple barely had sex once a month.

She credits launching her OnlyFans account with boosting her libido, and now she earns around $150,000 (roughly £108,630) a month on the platform.

However, she still struggles with her desire for intimacy, which is why she allowed their marriage to open up, beginning with a threesome.

Monica said: ‘I knew John had always wanted a threesome, but I had always been worried about him catching feelings for someone else.

‘He had never given me cause to question his faithfulness, but I was always paranoid, overprotective and jealous.

‘In the past, it had really put a strain on our relationship.

‘I was a little apprehensive, but we decided to try the threesome. I really enjoyed it and found it a huge turn-on, but I had to ease myself in.

‘The first time had been just for fun but the second time we filmed it for my OnlyFans account.

‘I was surprised at how comfortable I felt with it and I loved seeing my husband with other girls – something I never thought would happen.’

Following the successful threesome, Monica suggested John set up his own OnlyFans page and told him he could have sex with whoever he wants.

She said: ‘I figured, we are already shooting with others, why not have two pages and he can shoot with the girls on his own?

‘It’s fun for him as well as lucrative.

‘He gets to have fun and that makes me happy and I help him film as well.

‘John is extremely awesome when it comes to shooting with other girls and he makes me feel super comfortable with it.

‘We’re all like one big happy family.

‘It’s really helped our marriage a lot and I have a whole different view on sexuality.’

Currently, John only has sex with other women for his OnlyFans.

‘He wouldn’t go on dates with them, he’s not interested in that side of things, it’s just physical,’ she said.

‘Most of the time we will be at our house, but we’ll also often go to a hotel or an Airbnb.

‘We are friends with a lot of the women, so I never feel threatened.

‘He does text and talk to them, but nothing about that is a secret. I’m always informed about everything.

‘We sometimes go out for dinner all of us, but he never goes on dates with them alone.’

John added: ‘Doing OnlyFans with Monica has been really awesome.

‘It all sort of happened by chance and then escalated into a bigger thing, but it’s definitely brought us closer.

‘It’s a lot of work but has also afforded us a life we wouldn’t have had otherwise.’

Monica says she’s not interested in other men.

She said: ‘I am a one-man-kind-of-woman. If I am with a person, I am only with that person – I have to have a personal connection with men I’m having sex with.

‘Although I have sex with girls, I like the thought of John being the only man in my life, it makes it feel more special to me.

‘I don’t mind sharing my husband though. I find it sexy.’

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