I'm convinced all men are liars and I'll never find one to love | The Sun10/07/2022
DEAR DEIDRE: ALL men are liars – at least that’s how it feels to me.
My ex husband cheated on me repeatedly for ten years. I haven’t been able to trust another man since we split up five years ago.
I’m 45 and fed up with being alone.
I’d love to meet someone, but I don’t know how to let go of my pain and let my walls down.
I swallowed all of my husband’s lies and excuses because I loved him.
He’d tell me he had work events when he was with other women.
If I raised my suspicions, he told me he loved me and I was being paranoid.
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I’ve been on a few dates, but as soon as they tell me they like me, I start to doubt them and sabotage the relationship.
How can I learn to trust again?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your husband hurt you so deeply that you’re now not letting anyone else in in case they do the same.
But not all men are the like him. Take your time getting to know new people.
Trusting someone new is always a risk, but if you can work through your feelings about your ex, you’ll be more open to new love.
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