I lost my libido during pregnancy and I'm worried my husband will go elsewhere

I lost my libido during pregnancy and I'm worried my husband will go elsewhere


DEAR DEIDRE: I AM terrified my husband will go elsewhere as I have lost my sex drive.

I am 28, he is 30 and we have a two-year-old son.

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I am six months pregnant and it’s going well but I am struggling to have any interest in sex.

I give my husband oral sex even though he never asks me to or pressures me in any way.

He says he understands the changes of pregnancy and he tells me he loves me.

But I just want my sex drive back so I can return to being the woman I used to be.

DEIDRE SAYS: Sex drive can vary during pregnancy and it may come roaring back – but anxiety will tend to damp down your sexual responses.

Is there another reason why you feel so insecure, such as a bad experience?

You are showing you consider your husband’s sexual needs and he’s not complaining, so try to take in his reassurance or he could find that frustrating.

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