All intimacy with my partner has gone – he won’t even touch me | The Sun

All intimacy with my partner has gone – he won’t even touch me | The Sun

10/17/2022

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner no longer wants sex after we go to bed.

He won’t even touch me, so I no longer want to sleep in the same bed as him.


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He’s 62 and I’m 55.

We’ve been together for three years.

At first, we had a great sex life – but one night I assumed we were going to be intimate and he broke down saying he had an enlarged prostate.

He says he’s seen our doctor but I don’t know when that was.

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Last week, I was using his laptop and was upset to see the tabs he’d left open were all pornography sites.

I presume he uses this for his own pleasure – again, this isn’t a problem but it’s got me thinking, is the prostate thing an excuse and he’s gone off me?

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DEIDRE SAYS: He may be having some erection difficulties and feeling embarrassed, which is why he has been looking at porn instead.

When you’re not on your way to bed, tell him you miss the intimacy and that, if he’s gone off sex, you can work on this together.

My support pack Sex Play Therapy may help to reignite those intimate feelings.

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Needing the loo frequently, or if his aim isn’t as good as it was, are just some of the symptoms of prostate issues.

Encourage him to see his GP “again”, if needs be.

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